Why Charlie Sheen is A Good Role Model - Seriously
September, 27, 2011 7:06 pm | Comments On #Charlie Sheen, hollyblogs, Television, Valery Satterwhite
I almost missed it. Yet there it was.
A few sentences buried within a series of quick takes in the Sept. 17, 2011 issue of the Los Angeles Times reported on Charlie Sheen's recent "Today Show" and "Tonight Show" interviews as "Charlie Sheen's New Outlook."
It's interesting that the media that relentlessly covered and commented about Sheen's vortex of self-destruction gave little or not attention to the beginnings of what I hope will be a triumphant and empowering rise above.
Sheen admits to being out of control.
He confesses to being the "reluctant conductor" of his runaway train and not really "winning" much of anything in the...
Read MoreCelebrities Doing Bad Things And Why Some People Love It
September, 12, 2011 5:24 pm | Comments On #hollyblog, Movies, Valery Satterwhite
In 2011, we've watched Lindsay Lohan, Charlie Sheen, Senator Andrew Weiner and Amy Winehouse (among others) turn fast-paced careers into train wrecks.
Winehouse's problems with drug and alcohol abuse, violence and other self-destructive behavior were regular tabloid fodder and the subject of public scorn until her death July 23, 2011.
I wonder if she would have died so young if her personal indiscretions didn’t become international news.
It pains me to see artists, who create perhaps the highest form of human expression through their craft, derail their careers and their ability to do what they do best. Their contributions serve the greater good of all in the form of beauty, entertainment and inspiration.
We don't realize that for many, the greater the...
Read MoreNorwood Young Traded in 19 Davids for One Expansive Heart
August, 16, 2011 3:31 pm | Comments On #Los Angeles Times, music, Nita Lelyveld, norwood youngMy wake-up call this morning was a raw and inspiring article on the front cover of the August 16, 2011 Los Angeles Times.
Writer Nita Lelyveld turned what is often a "celebrity behaving badly" story into an "empowered celebrated human being" tale that touched my heart.

If you didn’t read “A House That Claimed His Fame" -- the story of singer Norwood Young’s journey to be known for who he is rather than the abundance he has accumulated -- here it is in a nutshell.
Flamboyant professional singer Young purshased a home in Los Angeles' historic Hancock Park in the...
Read MoreAn Open Letter to Lindsay Lohan
July, 12, 2011 11:43 am | Comments On #Lindsay Lohan, MoviesDear Lindsay,
You are at the crossroads of a defining moment. You are free to leave your gilded cage. Will you soar? Or will you splat against the window pane? Will your story be told as is Drew Barrymore's -- a story of triumph, accomplishment and esteem and (dare I say) joy? Or will your life story become an obituary about a life that might have been?
The choice is yours. Yes, Lindsay, how you author, direct and act in your life story from this moment on is entirely up to you.
Life happens for you, not to you. You -- yes YOU -- create the experiences in your life whether you realize it or not. This isn't about blame, shame, guilt or even credit. Those are judgment words and judgment is toxic to the human spirit. You did not get up out of bed on day wondering how you could screw up your life and then do just that...
Read MoreI'm Not Jumping on the 'Let's Dump on Charlie' Kabuki Dance
March, 07, 2011 6:42 pm | Comments On #Charlie Sheen, hollyblog, Media, Valery SatterwhiteThis post isn't joining the "let's dump on Charlie Sheen" kabuki dance.
If you want more of that, you have plenty of other places to go for amusement. No one gets out of bed in the morning determined to screw up their lives. The sad truth is, we're all just doing the best we can with the light we have to see.
Oh yeah ... many of us are bumbling around in the dark. We've all wandered down the wrong path a time or two.
So this post comes from a place of compassion. In my opinion, judgement of any kind is wasted energy. That time and effort is better spent lighting our own journey, learning a few lessons, and rising above. It's what we're here to do.
Sheen is not at the point where he is willing to take responsibility for his role in the s*** storm he's created around him. He's still playing the...
Read MoreJoe Pantoliano's Crazy Beautiful Holidays
December, 14, 2010 7:22 am | Comments On #Joe Pantoliano, Movies, The SopranosIt was one of those typical holiday 'What up?" calls. Joe answered the phone upbeat and talkin' turkey. Dogs were barking in the background.
Actor Joe Pantoliano is a busy man these days. We all know of his film work and his Emmy award for his role as Ralph Cifaretto in “The Sopranos.” What isn't as well known is his personal mission to remove the stigma of mental illness.
In his role as founder of No Kidding, Me Too!, Joe just returned from Toronto where he gave the keynote speech for the Canadian Psychiatric Research Foundation's Annual Silver Dinner.
More on NKM2 in a minute.
Our conversation that day centered on his NKM2 documentary that shares the stories of people hiding behind the stigma of a mental disorder. He’s on a...
Read MoreAnnette Bening -- a Kid Who's All Right
November, 30, 2010 4:22 pm | Comments On #annette bening, Hollywood, Movies, The Kids are All RightAwestruck and perhaps more than a little envious of such freedom, we consider showing a little more of who we really are -- if we dare. When we do, we discover the strength that comes with the ability to be so vulnerable. Why are we so afraid to let people see us for who we really are?
I just saw Annette Bening in her new film, "The Kids Are All Right," and I realized how fascinating it is to see phenomenal actors who are willing to completely expose themselves so openly to reveal every fiber of a character's being. Yet even with such inner courage and fortitude, many actors are unwilling to allow the public to see anything other than a pre-packaged surgically altered often (badly) scripted...
Sandra and Jesse: The Blind Side
April, 02, 2010 4:47 pm | Comments On #Jesse James, Sandra Bullock, Valery SatterwhiteSome say Sandra Bullock was the last to know, blind to husband Jesse James' trysts and titillating tabloid fodder.
Jesse turned a blind side to the effects of his addiction to self-sabotage -- if not his reputation, certainly his marriage.
The media in their frenzied kabuki dance and all of us who have been voraciously chewing on the story have turned a blind side to the additional pain and suffering we're imposing on these two talented individuals -- members of our tribe.
Yes, if Jesse intended to have a long and happy marriage with Sandra, he made some woefully misguided choices.
No one gets up out of bed in the morning and asks, "Gee, how can I eff up my life today?"
Like a drug addict or...
Read MoreYes, There Are Media Alternatives to Celebmania
December, 13, 2009 3:22 pm | Comments On #Access Hollywood, American Idol, Entertainment Tonight, So You Think You Can Dance, Television, tmzGiven the popularity of television shows such as "TMZ," "Entertainment Tonight," "Access Hollywood" and others that spotlight the glamorous and sometimes bizarre life that is played out in celebrity-ville every day, it is evident that vast audiences are fixated on those who have reached superstardom.
Auditions for "So You Think You Can Dance," "American Idol" and the no-talent-required roster of reality shows reveal the hundreds of thousands (if not millions) of people who have a burning desire to become a rich and famous celebrity.
Within the line-up of voyeuristic following on TV, the Internet, radio and print media the emphasis is largely on the rewards that often come with massive exposure. How the fervor of media attention is garnered is seemingly irrelevant.
Pretend to lose your kid in a UFO-like...
Read MoreThe Lindsay Lohan U-Turn
November, 22, 2009 5:29 pm | Comments On #Lindsay Lohan, Michael Lohan, people, twitterIs it possible that Lindsay Lohan is sick and tired of being sick and tired? Has she finally had enough of fame-hungry Dad's noxious antics?
A couple of weeks ago I wrote about Lindsay's latest trouble with the courts in her disregard for the terms of her probation. I said that time will tell if Lohan is committed to moving beyond court scenes and tabloid fodder to express her full potential as an artist or committed to creating more of the same problems and drama in her life and the lives of those close to her.
The latest in a series of Lohan headlines, Lindsay Dad leaked a taped phone conversation featuring Lindsay crying about how no one cares about her. Way to...
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