Nicole Kidman has her marriage to Tom Cruise to thank for protecting her from sexual harassment in Hollywood early on in her career, the “Big Little Lies” star said in an as-told-by-her essay published by New York Magazine Tuesday.
“Being married to Tom Cruise at 22 is something I’m always reluctant to talk about, because I’m married now to the man who is my great love [Keith Urban], and it almost feels disrespectful,” Kidman said, before discussing her decades-old relationship with the actor, whom she met when they were cast in the film “Days of Thunder.” The couple were married on Dec. 24, 1990.
Kidman added: “That said, I got married very young, but it definitely wasn’t power for me — it was protection. I married for love, but being married to an extremely powerful man kept me from being sexually harassed. I would work, but I was still very much cocooned. So when I came out of it at 32, 33, it’s almost like I had to grow up.”
The “Destroyer” star adopted two children — a son and a daughter — with Cruise during the course of their 11-year marriage. She is now married to Urban, with whom she shares two daughters.
Kidman revealed in the essay that “of course” she has still had “#MeToo moments” (since she was “little,” even) but doesn’t want to “expose them in an article.”
“Do they come out in my work? Absolutely,” Kidman said. “I’m open and raw. I want to have my well of experience and emotion tapped into, used — and I’m not just talking about sexual harassment. I’m talking about loss, death, the full array of life. But it has to be by the right people so it’s not abused again.”
Kidman is currently working on a film about former Fox News chairman and CEO Roger Ailes with Charlize Theron and Margot Robbie, in which she plays Gretchen Carlson, a journalist who filed a sexual harassment lawsuit against the Fox boss in 2016. Carlson received a public apology from 21st Century Fox and was reportedly given a $20 million settlement.
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HBO
"Pretty Little Liars" Entering its final season, "Pretty Little Liars" is arguably the most successful teen crime drama of the last five years. Passionate but sinful love stories such as Ezra and Aria’s make the Freeform series' seven seasons perfect bingeable-material.
Freeform
"Sharp Objects" Add this one to your calendar for future binge-watching: Also directed by "Big Little Lies'" Jean-Marc Vallée, "Sharp Objects" will debut on HBO later this year. Based on the book of the same name from "Gone Girl" author Gillian Flynn, it tackles murder, psychological twists and small-town scandal, and is sure to be a hit with fans who enjoy this female-centric genre.
Broadway Books
"Famous in Love" "Pretty Little Liars" executive producer, Marlene King, takes on her newest project, airing April 18 on Freeform. Following the story of a college student turned movie star, "Famous in Love" takes Hollywood glitter and intertwines it with a mystery.
Freeform
"13 Reasons Why" Airing on March 31, "13 Reasons Why" will navigate the choppy waters of high school, young love and loss. Based on the bestseller by Jay Asher, this Netflix series will take viewers through the mystery that circled Hannah Baker before she ended her life.
Netflix
"Riverdale" The characters of The CW's "Riverdale" are based on those from the Archie comics, but the similarities end there. When the idyllic town of Riverdale is shocked by a murder, romantic relationships complicate both the town’s perfect image and the path to finding out what happened.
The CW
"How to Get Away with Murder" Currently one of the spiciest shows on television, this Shonda Rhimes gem on ABC combines passion, forbidden love and murder like no other.
ABC
"The Vampire Diaries" Add a supernatural aspect to lust, mystery and death, and you’ve got "The Vampire Diaries" on The CW. Revenge and bloodlust drive the story of Elena, Damon and Stefan in Mystic Falls.
The CW
"Revenge" Taking place in a beachside, wealthy community, this female-centric ABC drama draws many parallels with "Big Little Lies." From determining who her friends are to reconciling with her past, lone wolf Emily VanCamp can be described as a more sinister Jane (Shailene Woodley) when both characters navigate their respective new towns.
ABC
"The Catch" The fast-paced, Shonda Rhimes story of a forensic accountant and her fiancé who happens to be a con, tackles the balance of responsibility of love.
ABC
"True Blood" Featuring "Big Little Lies" star Alexander Skarsgård and also airing on HBO, the love story of waitress Sookie Stackhouse and vampire Bill Compton brings trouble and excitement to the small town of Bon Temps, Louisiana.
HBO
"The Lying Game" Based on "Pretty Little Liars" author Sara Shepard’s books, "The Lying Game" has the same family secrets, tangled love triangles and excitement of a small, wealthy town.
"Scandal" Another classic ShondaLand show, Olivia, Jake and Fitz portray a glamorous (and unrealistic) and complex portrayal of high-profile Washington life.
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Can't stop thinking about HBO's "Big Little Lies?" Here are some other shows that have the same combination of mystery, passion and intrigue.