Liam Neeson and Lesley Manville in their new film “Ordinary Love” play a couple who spend time shopping in the supermarket, going on power walks or even waiting for the other to return from the bathroom. The only thing unusual about the setting is that Manville’s character has breast cancer.
“Ordinary Love,” which opened Friday in limited release stateside, is a love story that grapples with how two people try to maintain their normal lives even as they cope with a breast cancer diagnosis and looming chemotherapy. And in speaking with TheWrap, Manville and Neeson were struck by the simplicity of the story and how it played up the “small things” in life even as they go through a giant change.
“The challenge is how can you make scenes going to the supermarket interesting? How do you do scenes of just walking through the corridors of a hospital or driving the car on the way to the hospital or coming home from it,” Manville told TheWrap. “Life is about those small things. You must have a very rarefied existence for those small things to not be a part of your everyday life.”
“I love those little scenes that Lesley hinted about. Going to the grocery store. Waiting with her doctor while I go for a pee, just waiting there. You don’t see that in movies,” Neeson added. “You can read that in the script, ‘She waits for her husband to come out of the bathroom,’ and you think, well that’s nothing. But when you see it on film, it’s actually invested with extraordinary minutiae of life, how important it actually is that perhaps this could be taken away at any moment if this cancer develops. I love those little scenes, almost throw away scenes.”
Lisa Barros D’Sa and Glenn Leyburn directed “Ordinary Love” from a script by playwright Owen McCafferty based on his own personal experience. It shows Manville’s character suffering through chemo but focuses more heavily on the surrounding, quiet moments and the loving, positive relationship Manville and Neeson’s couple have formed over the years.
Neeson and Manville had never met the other before working together on the film, but they had each admired the other’s work on both stage and screen and found their connection effortless.
“It was wonderful working with Liam. We had an ease and a safety,” Manville said. “You couldn’t really have predicted that. You can’t buy that. It’s either there or it isn’t.”
“We didn’t rehearse, but we talked around about it and the circumstances of it, and I just knew we clicked, certainly as human beings and certainly as actors. There were no egos involved,” Neeson said. “There was a lot of life experience in our acting experience, and it just breathes just to do it. No pushing, no effort, just breathe. Say the beautiful lines that Owen McCafferty had written for us. Not get in the way of the script.”
About the film, which opened in the UK late last year, Manville said she’s been moved by how survivors of breast cancer have found their performances to be honest and uplifting. She said she committed to portraying the reality of enduring chemotherapy without glamorizing it in any way.
“A lot of people who have went through it said they found the film uplifting, accurate, positive, they’ve taken great solace from the film that it hasn’t sugar coated the situation at all,” Manville said. “You’ve got to go there with it all, because imagine if I had done that scene and not be willing to go the distance with the effects of chemo and cancer, it would be dreadful. But the women who have seen it, they’ve kind of taken some comfort from seeing a horrible part of their lives represented on screen with a couple who are so positive and into each other as well.”
“Ordinary Love” is in theaters now.
Antonio Banderas, Kerry Washington and 95 More Portraits From TheWrap's Toronto Studio (Photos)
Robert Pattinson, director Robert Eggers and Willem Dafoe, "The Lighthouse"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress-producer Kerry Washington, "American Son"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Antonio Banderas, "Pain and Glory"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Bryce Dallas Howard, "Dads"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Isabelle Huppert, "Frankie"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Isabelle Huppert and director Ira Sachs, "Frankie"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Christopher Plummer, "Knives Out"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Katherine Langford, "Knives Out"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Jaeden Martell, "Knives Out"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Jamie Lee Curtis, "Knives Out"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Don Johnson, "Knives Out"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Toni Collette, "Knives Out"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
"Knives Out" cast and director Rian Johnson
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Finn Wittrock, Renée Zellweger and director Rupert Goold, "Judy"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Cynthia Erivo, "Harriet"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Leslie Odom Jr., "Harriet"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Kasi Lemmons, "Harriet"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
"Harriet" cast with director Kasi Lemmons
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Marielle Heller, "A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Enrico Colantoni, "A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Kelvin Harrison Jr, "Waves"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Alexa Demie, "Waves"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Lucas Hedges, "Waves"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Taylor Russell, "Waves"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Trey Edward Shults, "Waves"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
"Waves" cast and director Trey Edward Schults
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Dakota Johnson, "The Friend"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Jason Segel, "The Friend"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Producer Matthew Teague, stars Dakota Johnson, Jason Segel and director Gabriela Cowperthwaite, "The Friend"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Jamie Dornan, "Synchronic"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Jamie Dornan and Ally Ioannides, "Synchronic"
Priyanka Chopra Jonas and director Shonali Bose, "The Sky Is Pink"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Isla Fisher, "Greed"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Isla Fisher and Steve Coogan, "Greed"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Beanie Feldstein, "How to Build a Girl"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Alfie Allen, "How to Build a Girl"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Alfie Allen and Beanie Feldstein, "How to Build a Girl"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Coky Giedroyc, writer Caitlin Moran, actress Beanie Feldstein and actor Alfie Allen, "How to Build a Girl"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Bolude Watson, "Hearts and Bones"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Andrew Luri, "Hearts and Bones"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Hugo Weaving, "Hearts and Bones"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
"Hearts and Bones" cast and director Ben Lawrence
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Gabe Polsky and producer Steven Warshaw, "Red Penguins"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Kyle Marvin and actor-director-writer Michael Angelo Covino, "The Climb"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Alex Wolff, "Bad Education"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Ray Romano, "Bad Education"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Hari Dhilon, Allison Janney, Rafael Casal, Geraldine Viswanathan, Ray Romano, Alex Wolff, Mike Makowsky, and director Cory Finley, "Bad Education"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Peter Cattaneo, actors Sharon Horgan and Jason Flemyng,"Military Wives"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Ellen Page, "There's Something in the Water"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director-actor Taika Waititi, "Jojo Rabbit"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Roman Griffin Davis, "Jojo Rabbit"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Alfie Allen, "Jojo Rabbit"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Stephen Merchant, "Jojo Rabbit"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
"JoJo Rabbit" Cast and Director Taika Waititi
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Gael García Bernal, "Ema"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Mariana Di Girolamo, "Ema"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Santiago Cabrera, "Ema"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Gael Garcia Bernal, Mariana Di Girolamo, Santiago Santiago Cabrera and director Pablo Larraín, "Ema"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress-writer-director Julie Delpy, "My Zoe"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Richard Armitage, "My Zoe"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Richard Armitage and Julie Delpy, "My Zoe"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Halina Reijn, "Instinct"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Carice van Houten, "Instinct"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Valerie Pachner, "A Hidden Life"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor August Diehl, "A Hidden Life"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Stellan Skarsgård, "Hope"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Andrea Bræin Hovig, Stellan Skarsgård and director Maria Sødahl, "Hope"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Laysla De Oliveira and Rossif Sutherland, "Guest of Honour"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Writer-director Makoto Shinkai, "Weathering With You"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Daniel Radcliffe, "Guns Akimbo"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Samara Weaving, "Guns Akimbo"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Jason Lei Howden, Samara Weaving and Daniel Radcliffe, "Guns Akimbo"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Charlie Hunnam, "True History of The Kelly Gang"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
George Mackay, "True History of the Kelly Gang"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Justin Kurzel, "True History of the Kelly Gang"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Justin Kurzel, stars Essie Davis, George Mackay and Charlie Hunnam, "True History of the Kelly Gang"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Josh and Ben Safdie, Adam Sandler, "Uncut Gems"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Idina Menzel, "Uncut Gems"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Kevin Garnett, "Uncut Gems"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Julia Fox, "Uncut Gems"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor LaKeith Stanfield, "Uncut Gems"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
"Uncut Gems" cast and directors Josh and Ben Safdie
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Edgar Ramírez, "Wasp Network"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Wagner Moura, "Wasp Network"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Olivier Assayas, stars Wagner Moura, Édgar Ramirez and Gael García Bernal, "Wasp Network"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Alex Wolff, "Human Capital"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Maya Hawke and Alex Wolff, "Human Capital"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Betty Gabriel, director Marc Meyers, Maya Hawke and Alex Wolff, "Human Capital"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actors Willem Dafoe, Gugu Mbatha-Raw and Edward Norton, "Motherless Brooklyn"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Claes Bang, "The Burnt Orange Heresy"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Giuseppe Capotondi, "The Burnt Orange Heresy"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Director Hirokazu Koreeda, "The Truth"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actor Jonathan Pryce, "The Two Popes"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Writer Anthony McCarten, director Fernando Meirelles, actors Jonathan Pryce and Juan Minujín, "The Two Popes"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
Actress Malky Goldman, writer-director Keith Thomas, actors Dave Davis and Menashe Lustig, "The Vigil"
Photographed by Irvin Rivera for TheWrap
Photo Assistant: Noah Asanias
1 of 98
Toronto Film Festival 2019: Robert Pattinson, Renée Zellweger, LaKeith Stanfield and more stop by TheWrap’s studio in the Thompson Hotel