‘Tea With the Dames’ Film Review: Enjoy an Entertaining Eavesdrop on Four Living Legends

Who wants to hear Maggie Smith, Judi Dench, Joan Plowright and Eileen Atkins dish the dirt and reminisce over drinks? You do

Last Updated: September 21, 2018 @ 1:36 PM

A consistently hilarious 90-minute chat that could have gone on for twice as long (or, ideally, a weekly television series) without ever feeling like too much of a good thing, “Tea With the Dames,” from director Roger Michell (“Notting Hill”), is as cozy and satisfying as its title suggests.

Simply, it consists of Dame Maggie Smith, Dame Judi Dench, Dame Joan Plowright and Dame Eileen Atkins gathering together at Plowright’s home and talking, and the verbal volleying, interruptions, sentence-finishing, and anecdotal confirmation of a 60-plus year friendship between the four only lags when the participants themselves look into the camera to tell the filmmakers that they’re tired. (Smith: “They did tell you how old we are, didn’t they?”)

Bracketed by theater-based vocal warm-up exercises, with all four women rapidly repeating chants such as “red lorry yellow lorry” (and a closing-credits attempt at a tongue twister that won’t be spoiled here), the conversation follows a loosely chronological trajectory — Atkins shares stories of her earliest years dancing with an institution known as The K.Y. School and her childhood confusion regarding why so many people found that name funny — and then digresses at random whenever one of the women remembers a particularly pointed anecdote.

When Atkins moves on to the subject of playing Cleopatra and not feeling like she had the courage to tackle the role, Dench jumps in to relate her own experience with the character. “I just remember people laughing openly,” she deadpans, before remembering that she also asked if they really wanted “a menopausal dwarf” in the part. Cleopatra prompts acerbic commentary from Smith about the late Alan Bates’ envy for the role, as well a discussion of Shakespeare and naturalistic acting, with Plowright bemoaning the downsizing of the playwright’s language, chiding contemporary actors who insert “pauses anywhere they like, and uh, uh, uh…”

Memories of the 1960s ricochet between Dench and Atkins, the former announcing, “We swung early,” and the latter confirming, “You and I didn’t need the ’60s,” which segues into memories of protesting Vietnam in Trafalgar Square and watching Vanessa Redgrave get arrested.

Stage nerves (“Fear is petrol,” states Dench), difficult men (notably Lord Laurence Olivier, Plowright’s late husband, of whom Smith says, “I was more nervous of your husband than the critics. Everybody was. We were terrified.”), raising children, remembering only the bad reviews, the female beauty standards of the entertainment business, the unique situation of being offered the title of “Dame,” and the challenges of film acting versus stage work all come in for dissection.

Smith recounts her time with the late Alan Rickman on “Harry Potter” sound stages, delivering reaction shots opposite thin air as the teenage cast members were being tutored or set up for another shot in a different location. She also confesses to never having watched “Downton Abbey” and despising the large hats of period films as “…the heaviest things in the world. I wore one that was the Albert Hall.”

All four are rankled by the subject of aging and death (Dench: “F–k off, Roger!”), quick to joke about “having three good eyes between” them, but somewhat aghast upon learning that fellow veteran actress Miriam Margolyes has already planned her funeral.

There are, admittedly, cinematic limitations of a frame in which four people sit and talk, so Michell’s team curates a generous helping of archival footage. Home movies, personal photographs, and 50-year-old television clips — 1968 Dench in bright green body makeup for “A Midsummer Night’s Dream” is a sight to behold — make for thrilling punctuation to an already charming conversation.

That charm, the vitality of “Tea With the Dames,” is a product of lifelong friendships and a relaxed comfort the four women share. Michell captures the actors in what may be a somewhat artificial environment, but one in which they speak more openly than we’re used to hearing — casually, but also truthfully, in a manner that tends to be tamped down in more formal interview or press-junket settings. We feel lucky to be eavesdropping, learning which one is most likely to self-deprecate (a toss-up between Dench and Atkins) and who’s the saltiest (Smith, but you probably guessed that already).

Now, about that tea. It plays a far smaller role than expected, as the title of the film was changed from the original “Nothing Like a Dame” to ingratiate itself to the curiously twee version of anglophilia that exists in the United States, the one that centers around Merchant-Ivory films, teapots and those Albert Hall-sized hats. These dames, perhaps unsurprisingly, are most happily served when the filmmakers break out a bottle of champagne, prompting Smith to demonstrate why she was cast as the Dowager Countess of Downton: “Why didn’t anyone think of that a few hours ago?”